A REMINDER TO SELF
WE ARE NEVER BORN, WE NEVER DIE
The grief of losing a loved one is beyond imagination. Each person deals with grief in their own way.
I have been sharing these thoughts with dear ones who are going through grief of losing a loved one.
Please understand that we can never lose those whom we love, they are forever united with us in our heart. Your body being will be devastated by the loss, because you cannot touch or speak to the person you love.
But understand that we are not the body or the mind we are grand beings who come into these body vehicles for a short while to have the human experience. We lived before we came into this body, we now live in these physical bodies, the body comes and goes, but we continue to be there because we are eternal beings, a part of the great Creator. Hence, we are never born and we never die. Only the body is born and it dies.
The highest respect you give to your loved one who has passed, is to understand that they are not dead, they are very much alive, and without the restriction of a physical body they are One with the cosmos, the moment you think of them they are near you.
Place your hand on your heart and close your eyes and speak to your loved one, they are present and they are there listening to you, loving you and blessing you and praying for you.
The Author, James Van Praag, has written many books on this particular subject. Also the book, ‘Afterlife of Billy Fingers’ is a wonderful message from the other side. There is a program called IANDS (International Association for Near Death Experiencers) They also have a YouTube channel from which they broadcast the experiences and stories that validate the afterlife . These are stories from people around the world who do not know each other but have gone through a death experience and saw the afterlife.
Truly we are grand beings, travelers beyond time and space. For a fraction in eternity we choose this human experience and reside in these beautiful physical body vehicles. We are not this body or this mind.
The greatest service of love and respect we do for each other is to be conscious in all our relationships.
To be alert and awake in the now moment and to do that which the moment requires.
To be our loving, forgiving, kindest selves and fulfill the opportunity given to us in these physical bodies.
Thoughts create emotions and if we do not address our emotions, we bottle them up and keep living in stress and distress. It is important to sit with our emotions and silently be there and process them so that we release ourselves from the unnecessary burdens we carry. Holding on to stressful emotions carry us away from the now moment and we lose the opportunity to extend our kindness and compassion at the moment towards us or even to the person in front of us.
It is our responsibility to be in conscious awareness with all dealings of life for the sake of all beings.
Choosing to be in conscious awareness is the highest form of virtue!
Let us live consciously for we are the bringers of peace.
Blessings!
Premlatha Rajkumar
http://awakenlovenjoy.com
https://www.youtube.com/@lattha9100
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