A REMINDER TO SELF
AFFLICTION OF UNWORTHINESS
Most of the problems we face today are due to stress, stress is created because we do not see ourselves as worthy. Our religions, society, and the people around us have drummed into us that we are not worthy and that we are not good enough.
So it is hard to see ourselves as worthy of the Creator’s love, worthy to live a wonderful life, or even worthy of happiness and well being.
Since we have the feeling of unworthiness we do not willingly accept the gifts of life, we are not able to receive compliments, we are afraid to be happy or show our happiness, we do not develop the eyes to see the beauty around us, we do not even allow God to love us, for we constantly think that we are unworthy to receive.
The feelings of unworthiness and lack of self-esteem are all arrogance against creation. It is like pointing a finger at the Creator and saying that the Creator did not do the job perfectly. Every creation of the Creator is worthy of love and appreciation.
Seeking approval, seeking appreciation, comparing oneself, and competing with things on the outside arise from feelings of unworthiness and lack of self love.
It is not worth trying to please people, people can never appreciate what we like or do. The only person who can love and appreciate you the way you deserve to be appreciated is you yourself. You are worthy of your own love and appreciation.
Guilt, shame, disappointment, and depression come through comparison and competition stories of the mind. This keeps us down because this is not who we are. Every time we feel down, it is a clear indication for us to align back with our joy.
It is time we awaken to the truth that the feelings of unworthiness are learned behavior from the society around us, it is a belief system suggested in the disguise of humility.
True humility is loving the self as the temple where the Creator resides, aligning with the source of joy from our inner being, it is living the attitude of appreciation of every aspect of life, it is living from the place of non-judgment, compassion, and oneness with all beings, it is accepting and allowing every aspect of life with appreciation. This is true humility and the truth of who we really are.
Practice true humility. Smile for no reason. Laugh a lot. Connect with nature. Meditate, sit with yourself and process your fearful mind stories. Practice the attitude of gratitude and appreciation. Play with a pet or a child. Run down the beach. Blow bubbles. Hug a tree. Paint or draw as you please. Play in the sand. Become child-like. Get back into your joy, get back into your original blue print.
We are beloved children of the Universe and we are so greatly loved more than we can ever imagine. We are forever worthy to live a wonderful life. Self care, self love and self respect are very important habits to practice. They help to pull you out of the affliction of unworthiness.
Fall in love with yourself and with everything, appreciate and look at everything deeply, you will notice the gifts in everything.
Life is for you and it is never against you.
Blessings!
Premlatha Rajkumar
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